Editor#7
Funny guys are great! Having a good sense of humor is a gift. But so is finding someone who appreciates that sense of humor. Not every girl is going to think that you are funny, but I am sure there is at least one who does. Every girl places humor at a different level of importance. Making a girl laugh is one thing, but holding her attention past the joke is what will establish a stronger connection. Be aware of how you come off to others. Are you trying too hard? Have people actually told you that you are funny, or is it all in your head?
Girls look for that one guy with whom they can talk about any subject without trying to read past a barrier. When a relationship is all humor and no depth, the guy might be hiding insecurities or evading awkwardness. Thus, the time you spend with a girl becomes a matter of how long you can hold your fake composure before you become the joke yourself. As a girl, I know that there is nothing more tiring than forcing myself to laugh at a guy’s jokes just so he can feel good about himself. Humor is a great side dish to your conversation; however it cannot stand as the meat.
The “jerky” guys may have trouble establishing deep relationships since their handsome exterior is a distraction from their soulless insides. Some girls are instantly attracted to bad boys because they appear more masculine and strong, a complement to their femininity. However, these guys may also make promises to girls that are never fulfilled. Even if nice guys are not perfect 10s, they hold more potential in my book because warm personalities welcome a girl into friendship rather than force her.
Perhaps you are in the wrong place at the wrong time. Maybe your personality will be better received once you leave high school. You need to know which high school girls are superficial. Even though you might be attracted to them, they will easily overlook your personality because there is a better-looking guy behind you whose flaws are not immediately visible. Let the immature girls and their “boyfriends” learn their lessons the hard way. Even if you believe in accepting everyone, there is no point in associating with people who oppose your mission. Do not waste your breath trying to make them laugh.
I know some funny girls with the same problem.